I was reading Rhonda's talk about getting married is like a
contract.
And I strongly agrees.
Been communicating with some old female friends.
I think we are now at that sort of stage that we want to skip the
mind games, temper tantrums and is offering ourselves to the Men
that can support us comfortably in a simple bimbotic wiffey
roles.
Like...find someone financially stable enough to keep us at home,
to cook, wash, take care of house or even have babies w/o worrying
about whether there is going to be milk powder money later.
And we only need to focus on him and the kids. And when the kids
are older, we could possibly re-enter the work force and keep
ourselves from starving in old age. Best that, we can cut the
children loose and we enjoy our existence instead of relying on
them.
I sort of was even prepared to put in a clause, that if I cannot
produce children...that the man is welcomed to let us know, and I
let him go to father some kids with younger able females.
